Use that time to discuss what love means to both of you, and come to an understanding of one-another’s point of view on the subject. If after that amount of time you can say it to one another, knowing exactly what it means to each other, I like your chances of it working out!=================== Dan’s Thoughts Whirlwind romances happen. The fact that you spent time getting to know one another apart from the physical aspects of attraction and sex is a big plus.However, if a guy is genuinely trying to find love in his life, and he’s found someone that he’s attracted to, has great conversation with, and just enjoys being around her in a non-sexual capacity, he’s likely to convince himself “this must be love” because he wants it to be. If it grows into real love over time, you two can turn that into something special.However, if the newness wears off over time, he’s going to feel trapped and unable to extricate himself without hurting you – which will hurt him too if he’s a good man.It is possible, but from what you have been saying it doesn’t sound likely.When most guys are trying to play a woman, they will try to sleep with them as soon as possible, not take more time to wait and see.I would advise to keep on the same track – take small steps, spend time together getting to know one another in different contexts and in new ways.Let the sex take a back seat for a while so you ensure the attraction is real, not just a pleasant pastime.
Unless you are rich and he’s making a play for your money somehow, I don’t think that’s an issue.Unfortunately, there is no way to know if someone is genuine besides taking risks.From what you have shared, it seems to me that he is genuine.Date and enjoy each others company and get to know each other in various situations.Sometimes love at first sight can be overwhelming but many people that experienced this love go on to marry and stay happily married. ===================== Paul’s Thoughts To answer your first question, if it is possible he could be playing you.It honestly sounds to me like he’s had quickie relationships in the past, and he wants something more now – maybe he’s matured, maybe it’s because you are his ideal and he doesn’t want to blow it.However, where things are going wrong is that he doesn’t seem very good at trying to achieve that so far.You are wise not to progress to a sexual relationship to quickly. He may also be making sure that you consider him to be special and there is a commitment.He seems to feel the same way so that is encouraging.before we parted ways for the night we kissed and we def have amazing chemistry, and he says the same.a few days after we where talking on the phone and he admitted he was falling in love with me, i feel it too, but i’m worried its too fast.