And yet, mentioning these stories will bring out the apologists, the Not-All-Men, the dismissers and the derailers, and the ones who will continue to complain that women aren’t saying “no” clearly enough. For a lot of guys – especially ones who ignore soft no’s – holding on to those ambiguities gives them the opportunity to try again and again.In fact, this is the basis of the techniques pick-up artists teach to overcome “last minute resistance” – applying social pressure to coerce a woman into sleeping with the PUA even when she doesn’t want to.None of you useless, senseless, shiftless power craving niggas are Nat or Harriet who woulda likely shot y’all twitter.com/shanestackamil…Fergie’s ex husband wanted an apology from Draymond Green to Fergie for laughing at her national anthem.But dark skinned Black women should “suck it up” because after all, it’s just a “preference” and not colorism, hmm?pic.twitter.com/73l Wgc Qsv M You dorks are echoing slave master rhetoric and don’t even know it because you all refuse to read things and want to embrace an unfounded sense of exceptionalism. That's how long Ontario mom, Lyneth Mann-Lewis, waited to be reunited with her son, how long she held out hope she would one day hold him again, for the first time since he was a baby. Y’all tryna convince people y’all would lead Slave rebellions & endure all this pain and agony to have freedom and in 2018 y’all can’t boycott one company or even register to vote out corrupt politicians.Y’all aren’t about the revolution life, stop fronting twitter.com/shanestackamil… Here's one thing you can do: strongly oppose a war with Venezuela.
Not racism in the sense that we hate black people, or want them to be hurt.And I do realize how repugnant that train of thought is.In France you see a lot of relationships between immigrant African men and white women.In less extreme – but no less threatening or disturbing – examples, women will tell you about the times they’ve been followed, yelled at, grabbed or even on because they didn’t want to talk to somebody. Women are socialized over and over again to be deferential to men; it’s “polite” for women to use indirect language, especially when dealing with men. Over and over again, women are socialized to not trust their instincts and ignore red flags… A friend of mine has given far too much head-space towards trying to understand her personal creeper’s side of things because she’s been taught it’s better to ignore her gut and give him the benefit of the doubt over and over again. because they’re even more afraid of disappointing him. Women are continually pressured to “give the guy a chance” and to understand that “he’s just a little awkward” or that “he’s a nice guy” and she had to be mistaken. An “I’d love to, but I’m busy that day”, for example, is a soft no.Because she didn’t want to give him her phone number. Because she didn’t want to go home with him, to be touched, fondled, kissed or otherwise just did not want to accede to that individual’s demands of the moment. So is a “Maybe some other time.” So is pretending to misunderstand an offer, ignoring it entirely or even just what’s going on – they just don’t like the answer. We all agree that white women are most beautiful, even black men tend to think that, then why would you go on to procreate with a black man, and thereby not passing on your physical characteristics to your children. I feel that they are downplaying themselves, as well as the white community.He was popular and outgoing, known for his infectious sense of humor.He was known as a class-clown as well as being a successful athlete; he was wide receiver on the high-school football team in the fall, playing baseball and running track and field in the spring.After all, if she didn’t say “no” directly – so the theory goes – there’s still some wiggle room to get her to give in.To quote one of the more notorious PUA gurus to be treated this way.